I am married to my best friend in the whole world. I've known him since I was 13 years old! He was always my best guy friend. If either of us needed advice on the opposite sex we would ask each other. We always had each other's backs. I secretly had a crush on him since the first day that I met him....and he never knew! Apparently, he always like me back. But neither one of us ever said anything because when I was dating someone, he was single...and vice versa.
Fast forward about NINE years....Until one day when we messaged each other on Facebook trying to catch up on each other's lives.... I was single and when he told me he was single too it was like all of those goofy high school crush feelings came rushing back, but I still didn't say anything. Since he had just gotten out of a long term relationship (2 months before) I told him he should come out with my friends to the karaoke bar. After a few minutes of begging he decided to come. I thought he might, because he was in a band and is a great singer.
When he showed up I was really giddy and we had so much fun. He got along with all of my friends so well. They loved him, and kept asking me (right in front of him) why we had never dated. hahaha!! My friends are good for putting me on the spot.
photo from that night
He was only able to stay for an hour or two but when he left, he asked if I wanted to come over and watch a movie at his house the next day. Of course I said yes! And then stayed up all night wondering if we were watching movies as friends or if he liked me to. LOL
When I got to his house we were flirting THE WHOLE TIME but I was still worried he just thought of me as a friend. Once the movie was over and it was really late he asked if I wanted to spend the night, and I actually gave him kind of a "EXCUSE ME?!?!" kind of look but he laughed and said no, not like that. I said I don't know and we decided to flip a coin....if it was heads I would stay, tails I would go home. We cuddled all night <3
He proposed after a year of us dating and we were married almost a year after that...And the rest is history! We've been together for 6 years, married for four. And still completely crazy about each other.
I have actually shared the proposal story and also shared some photos of our wedding day if you wanted to know more about us crazy kids.
