Tuesday, September 2, 2014

10 Signs that he may not be "the one"


We have all had our share of nightmare dates and "why did I even like that guy" moments.  They usually aren't funny at all at the time, but looking back...sometimes you  have to laugh and say "what was I thinking?!".  I think you are finally able to laugh about it once you meet the right guy.

So if you are trying to figure out if the guy you are dating is the one for you or not, read some of my helpful clues (from my own personal experiences) and if any of them fit, RUN, run as fast as your legs will take you!!

1.  He only calls at 2am and just wants to come over to "cuddle". Riiiight...
2.  Not only did he forget your birthday but his intentions on showing up to your birthday party was actually to dump you....for your friend
3.  He tells a mutual friend that he wouldn't mind hooking up with your sister because she is so hot.
4.  He slept with your friend -  duh!
5.  He wants to keep the relationship a secret for a while.  Let me tell you a secret..what he actually means is let's not tell people at all because I want to keep my options open
6.  He tells you that you need to "start dressing nicer and looking prettier"
7.  For your big date he takes you to McDonald's and later has you smuggle a drink and candy in your purse to the DOLLAR theater.  True story
8.  He informs you that the only reason any of your guy friends talk to you is because they want to "bang" you.
9.  He brings you to one of his friend's parties and then disappears after an hour.  You later find him passed out drunk on the couch and have no way home.
10.  He disappears during school break and wants to pick up right where you left off when school starts back up.

Yeah, I dated some winners didn't I ladies?!?! haha!

But in the end, all of these nightmare experiences make me cherish my relationship with my husband even more now.  All of the jerks that I dated did teach me what not to put up with and how exactly I do want to be treated so I guess in that sense I don't regret them.  They were learning experiences!

What are some of your worst date stories??

12 comments:

  1. Husband # 1
    Husband # 2 .... enough.said. *wink* :)

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  2. Hahaha, we've all been there with past boyfriends, am I right?! Great post! :)

    -Ashley
    http://lestylorouge.com

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    1. haha thanks Ashley!! It's good to know I'm not the only one that attracts the crazies! lol

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  3. hahahah!!!! Hilarious! I try not to look back, haha... ugh! #5 - been there and found a million excuses for that guy. I was such an idiot! #8 = "Hi, I'm a guy who is completely insecure! And I'm going to make it YOUR problem!" We have all been with "that guy"! ;)

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    1. Yeah, me too! But hey, you ended up finding a pretty great guy in the end. You two seem amazing together from your posts

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    1. hahaha yeah, I dated some real winners before my husband.

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  5. So happy my current guy has none of those traits. But holy crap, I've experienced some of those. The screws your friend one, the "be prettier" (in my case, "lose weight") one, the birthday dump one (followed by promises to show up to talk and being stood up- twice), being told about others they'd like to "do"...guys are jerks. You get older, wiser and learn not to put up with one millimeter of that crap, luckily :)

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    1. Exactly!! lol! Glad you found a great guy too!

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  6. hahaha! Those are some winners. I had some definite loosers but the worst has to be "I know I left suddenly and I can't tell you where I am because I had to move states to avoid the warrant out for my arrest." OMG, so glad I found my soul mate.

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    1. WOW, I've never heard that one before. Geez, sounds like something straight out of a movie! Glad you found a good guy now

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